DEAR DEIDRE: YOU would suppose that after 20 years collectively, my husband might ask me for intercourse however he by no means does.
We’re each 43 and we now have two grown-up sons.
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I really like intercourse. I nonetheless wish to maintain myself trying good, with common hairdos and I maintain match.
I’m a girl who desires to really feel wished and desired.
We’ve got an excellent intercourse life however solely as a result of I maintain issues going.
I ask my husband two or thrice every week for intercourse and he does oblige, however I can rely on one hand the variety of instances he’s initiated it prior to now yr.
I’ve tried to speak to him about it however he says, “It doesn’t matter who asks for it, so long as we each take pleasure in it”.
Generally I’d find it irresistible if he got here dwelling, pushed me onto the mattress and ravished me however as an alternative, he goes upstairs to vary into jogging bottoms and slippers like an outdated man.
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He says he’s not that assertive. I believe it’s garbage and he’s lacking the purpose.
Who’s in the proper right here?
DEIDRE SAYS: You each must work at a relationship.
And for the time being you’re the one one being spontaneous on the subject of your intercourse life.
Writing notes for him to find or texting him a romantic message will ship the sign that you simply’re anticipating one thing enjoyable.
My assist pack known as 50 Methods To Add Enjoyable To Intercourse will present him take the lead.